Save the Bachelor of Heaven

 “Hello, Mr. Ding.” Zhang Huimin said politely, but her eyes were filled with confusion.

 She originally thought that the man her daughter fell in love with would be a very handsome young man. But looking at appearance alone, Xiang Nan was really ordinary, and he was fifteen years older than her daughter, which she really didn't expect.

 “What does Mr. Ding do?” Zhang Huimin asked curiously.

 “I’m unemployed now.” Xiang Nan waved his hand and smiled.

“Unemployed?!” Zhang Huimin was startled and asked quickly, “Then what do you rely on for a living?”

 Can't he rely on his daughter to support him?

 “I still have some savings.” Xiang Nan answered.

“You should still find something to do, otherwise no matter how much you save, it will be all in vain.” Zhang Huimin advised.

 If you can only go out but cannot get in, you will be trapped in the ground immediately. No matter how much you save, you will not be able to survive for a long time. Although Xiang Nan is a bit older, he is still not old enough to retire. It would be too lazy to stop working now and only rely on his past savings.

“Yes, thank you for reminding me.” Xiang Nan nodded.

"You and Xiao Dan have been together for two years, which is not a short period of time. When do you plan to officially get married?" Zhang Huimin asked again with concern.

“I don’t have this idea yet.” Xiang Nan said honestly.

He and Rui Xiaodan have not officially discussed the matter of marriage.

 Because neither of them cares about the formality, it doesn't matter to them whether they received the marriage certificate or held the ceremony.

 What they care about is the most essential love. If their love is still there, with or without that piece of paper, they will be together. But once the love is gone, even if they have that piece of paper, they will no longer force it.

The purpose of that piece of paper is just to clarify the ownership of the property. However, neither of them takes money very seriously, so the only meaning is gone. Naturally, it doesn't matter whether they receive the certificate or not.

 And their friends all know that they are together. As for those who are not even friends, what does it matter whether they know or not?

So they don’t have to worry about holding a wedding. After all, life is for them to live, not to show off to outsiders.

"How can this be done? You should still get married. Otherwise, what would you look like like?" Zhang Huimin frowned.

She thought it was inappropriate for them to live together without getting married. The key was that they had no plans to get married yet. Then the daughter has no name and no status. What kind of decency is this?

"Yes, you are right to remind us, we will consider it." Xiang Nan nodded.

 …

“Daughter, what’s so good about that man named Ding? What do you like about him?” Zhang Huimin couldn’t help but ask her daughter when Rui Xiaodan and her mother were sleeping in the same room at night.

Xiang Nan looks average, is still old, has no job, and does not want to marry his daughter. With such a person, what else does my daughter have to do with him?

There are so many good men in the world, why hang yourself on this crooked tree?

“Mom, he is very nice.” Rui Xiaodan said with a smile, “You will know after being in contact with him for a long time. There are really not many men like him in the world.”

"What's so good? I don't even have a serious job. I'm just sitting there with nothing to do. I can't get in or out. What should I do in the future?" Zhang Huimin said worriedly.

 She is now very worried that her daughter will be defrauded of money and **** by Xiang Nan.

"Mom, don't worry so much." Rui Xiaodan guessed her mother's thoughts and couldn't help laughing, "Yuanying is very rich. He was engaged in private equity funds in the past two years. In one year, he managed 200 million He made a profit of RMB 200 million, and he himself received US$5 million. So for him, making money is as easy as catching a turtle in a urn. You don’t have to worry about our future life.”

 “That’s it.” Zhang Huimin said in surprise.

 Five million US dollars is really not a small amount. She had been in Germany for twenty years and had worked hard to run this small restaurant in Bale, but she had only earned 600,000 marks.

"Then you should also formally get married, and not be so unclear. What do you think you are doing now, living together as a couple?" Zhang Huimin asked again, "Even if you don't care, what will you do if you have children in the future? You have no name or distinction. Yes, do you want the child to be an illegitimate child?"

"Mom, I think it's good like this now. The marriage certificate is just a piece of paper." Rui Xiaodan waved his hand, "Besides, we have never thought about having children."

"What? Don't want to have children? Does he not want to, or do you not?" Zhang Huimin asked in surprise.

 “We don’t want to do either of us.” Rui Xiaodan waved his hand.

She and Xiang Nan are both very transparent people, and they both prefer not to have children.

 Because they are adults and can decide their own affairs. Whether they love or hate, get together or separate, they make their own decisions and bear the consequences themselves, but children are very different.

They don’t want to interfere in their children’s lives and make decisions for their children, but they can’t just watch their children make mistakes, so they simply don’t have children to save themselves the trouble.

“Oh, what if I don’t have children? What will you do when you get old?” Zhang Huimin said worriedly.

"Mom, if you have children just to protect yourself from old age, then there is no such thing as fatherly love and maternal love, but just an exchange of interests." Rui Xiaodan waved his hands and said, "I hope that parents will raise their children and that children will be filial to their parents. Real feelings, not because of 'raising children for old age' or 'moral pressure', which will only make parents and children live in pain."

“Hey, you kid, you have always had the right ideas since you were a child, but you still refuse to listen to me no matter how hard I try to persuade you.” Zhang Huimin couldn’t help but sigh when her daughter said this.

"Mom, I know you are doing it for my own good. Don't worry, I know it in my heart." Rui Xiaodan comforted her.

 She is not worried about her future.

 On the one hand, she has brains, ability, can support herself, and has accumulated a certain amount of savings. She is not a pure vase who cannot live without others;

On the one hand, she has an open-minded character. Even if one day she gets an incurable disease or becomes so old that she is alone and unable to take care of herself, she can accept death calmly.

 “It’s best if you know the best.” Zhang Huimin said.

 …

 October, Xiang Nan's villa has been renovated. The water, electricity, gas, heating, furniture, appliances, decoration, etc. are all brand new. It is completely upgraded to a higher level than before.

 In the same month, Rui Xiaodan also officially reported to the Law Department of Frankfurt University.

"I will come back to see you every week." She smiled and said to Xiang Nan, "This way, every day I pass, I will be closer to the weekend, and I will live in hope every day."

"If I can't stand thinking about you, I will go to Frankfurt to see you." Xiang Nan smiled and nodded.

Berlin is only 400 kilometers from Frankfurt, and if you drive at a fast speed, it will only take four or five hours at most. For Xiang Nan, a four- or five-hour drive is nothing at all.

“Well, then I have another surprise.” Rui Xiaodan nodded and smiled.