Siheyuan: promoted to engineer at the beginning, wife Fatty

Chapter 169 Zhao Yingzhi, Let’S Not Get Married Just To Get Married!

Li Changsheng didn’t want Yu Anmin to be like the original time and space. In order to seek a stable married life, he ended up stepping into the quagmire twice.

He told Yu Anmin: “We were born in an unfortunate broken family, and it is already difficult for us to manage a good marriage.

Because I have the genetic education of my parents in my bones, I will deal with marriage and love issues like them, and the possibility of success is very small!”

Yu Anmin was slightly taken aback and asked, “You mean, you don’t want to get married?”

Next, he will talk to Yu Anmin, and he will also tell Zhao Yongzhi and others in the future that women should not marry for the sake of marriage.

Li Changsheng shook his head: “I mean don’t get married just to get married!

Marriage is the best gift God has given us. We must not squander it recklessly, but care for it with our hearts.

But for many people, marriage is more like a transaction,

Many people get married not because of love, but to fulfill their parents’ wishes, such as Zhao Yong~zhi.

Because Zhao Yongzhi couldn’t listen to her parents’ nagging and the urging of relatives and friends, she was forced to find someone to marry casually.

It seems that people like Zhao Yongzhi get married only for other people, not for themselves.

In this way, I easily put my happiness in the hands of others, without any emotional basis,

After two people get married, their personalities are not compatible, and they will disagree on many things, making it difficult to make a happy marriage.

Marriage is like a roller coaster, ups and downs, even lovers with deep feelings will inevitably have conflicts after marriage, let alone those who are not in love?

Look at Zhao Yongzhi’s conflict with her ex-husband, so don’t marry for the sake of marriage, you won’t be happy.

In the past, people of the older generation got married at the behest of their parents and the matchmaker. No matter what the other party is, whether you are satisfied or not, you can only follow the opinions of your parents, and you have no choice.

Therefore, after two people get married, they just want to live a good life, and they will not quarrel over trivial matters.

The two suffered the same emotional injury, so they reported to the group to keep warm together.

Marriage without love as the basis, if you don’t know how to manage well after marriage, if you can’t run in with each other, and the two become one, most of them will not be happy.

As time went by, Zhou Runfa calmed down and found that he didn’t love Yu Anmin at all.

Of course, there are still some people who are blind to marriage and get married in a hurry under various pressures.

People who love each other will definitely not get bored when they get along, but people who don’t love each other are just tired of seeing each other when they are together.

Yu Anmin lives in the extremely superstitious Xiangjiang area and believes in fortune-telling.

Zhou Runfa couldn’t fall in love with Yu Anmin, this kind of married life would always make him angry for no reason,

But Zhou Runfa really purely wanted to take revenge on Chen Yulian, and wanted her to regret it.

Therefore, as a woman, don’t marry for the sake of getting married just because you are old or care too much about other people’s opinions, and you will not be happy. ”

When two people are together, they have a son, and if they can carry on the family, they will complete the task.

Li Changsheng said: “Before the two of us had such in-depth exchanges, your life didn’t change because of me.

Especially many older women, who can’t stand gossip, just listen to their parents’ saying that a man should marry a man, and a woman should marry a woman [just enter the palace of marriage with ten men who don’t have any feelings.

But it is different now, in this modern society, everyone is busy with various things, and there is no time to talk about love and prepare for their big marriage.

In 1987, Yu Anmin met Li Wanqi, and the two quickly fell in love and got married.

After separating from Er Dongsheng, Yu Anmin got acquainted with Zhou Guifa who was connected by the same fate,

I told Er Dongsheng about getting married before, just to force him to break up with me!”

Li Changsheng shook his head: “I can see that you actually yearn for a stable married life.

He will talk about the marriage between Yu Anmin’s original time and space, Zhou Runfa and the rich second generation, focusing on how bad those two men are. .

She asked: “Then can you figure out who I will marry in the future?”

In 2002, her husband Li Wanqi declared bankruptcy, but Yu Anmin was also willing to be with her husband and share everything,

I don’t even know how to manage a marriage well, which will always bring a lot of disharmony to the married life.

Yu Anmin was very moved by Zhou Guifa’s statement, she was too tired in this relationship with Er Dongsheng, she wanted to have a stable home, and she wanted to be at home with her husband and children with peace of mind.

Although Zhou Runfa gave a touching speech at the wedding: I, Zhou Runfa, voluntarily married Ms. Yu Anmin, and was willing to love her and love her for the rest of my life.

Yu Anmin still didn’t quite understand: “Why did you suddenly tell me about this? I don’t even think about getting married now!

We may be infinitely tolerant towards the people we like, but we can’t obey everything for those we don’t feel.

But as Li Wanqi’s scandals continued, the marriage they had worked so hard to maintain for 15 years broke down completely. After that, Yu Anmin paid for filming to support her two daughters alone.

Zhou Guifa was deeply hurt because of an unforgettable love affair with Chen Yulian.

In just a few months, the two got married and divorced.

You and Er Dongsheng will not break up so early, you will break up after two years, and then you will meet an actor in the circle…”

However, the soul that has not yet grown and experienced, after marriage, does not know how to manage the relationship between two people,

At the end of the year, the two held a wedding. The news of the marriage caused a sensation in the entertainment industry. Marriage is not a child’s play. You can tell whether you love it or not.

Yu Anmin died after marriage. In 1988, Yu Anmin gave birth to her eldest daughter, and in 1991 she gave birth to her youngest daughter.

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Because the two of them were unhappy at the time, Zhou Runfa had a bold idea that it would be better for the two of us to get married. This marriage exists with revenge against the ex.

But I can tell fortunes, I can see your future married life, no matter how you manage it, it will fail, and it will affect your career instead!”