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 During lunch, several male elders of the Li family rushed over to accompany him.

Li Dahai's father has passed away. Generally speaking, in rural areas of Vietnam and China, women are not considered to be the head of the family (in fact, they are the head of the family). Male elders must be present at critical moments. This is also the rule.

The Li family even considered this detail, which made Chen Qi even more satisfied.

 Chen Qi no longer cares about the conditions of Li Dahai's family, but if he still doesn't get the respect he deserves and doesn't even pay attention to the woman's first visit, then the silly eldest sister will definitely be destined to be a maid when she gets married.

If this is the case, Chen Qi would rather his eldest sister never get married and he would raise her for the rest of his life, and would not agree to this marriage.

 A woman has two opportunities to change her destiny in her life. One is when she is born. It depends on whether your reincarnation level is high or not. The other time is to get married, which affects the rest of a woman's life.

 After dinner, several uncles and uncles from the Li family formally made a marriage request to "Lao Guo".

"Guo Shuji, Dahai is the eldest son of our third son. His character is excellent. Whether in the village or in the workplace, he is well-known by everyone. He is filial to his mother and loves his younger brothers and sisters. This is why Delayed personal life-long events.

This time, Dahai was lucky enough to meet Dean Chen's sister. I just observed that the young couple were coming and going, and they were very polite. It was obvious that the two young people had an eye for each other. As Dahai's uncle, I, As well as his second uncle and fourth uncle, they are quite satisfied with Comrade Chen Qin.

So I also asked Guo Shuji, Dean Chen, to arrange the marriage between Dahai and Comrade Chen Qin. Don’t worry, Dahai’s family’s conditions are a bit poor, but our uncles’ families can also put together the betrothal gift, and then we can put this house together. If you practice this, Comrade Chen Qin will not be wronged. "

Uncle Li’s words were polite and he was prepared to do this.

 It has always been a tradition in central Vietnam to have brothers and elders help when getting married.

In rural areas, there is even a "mutual aid association" among the same tribe. How much each tribe member pays each month is a public account.

When a boy in a clan reaches the age of marriage, but is too poor to afford a wife, this "public account money" can help him find a wife.

Next time it is another man's turn to get a wife, everyone will continue to join in. In this way, they will help each other round by round, and the little will add up, so that every man in the clan can marry a wife and ensure the continuation of the family. It also prevents the old bachelor from being able to enter the ancestral grave after his death.

 So relatively speaking, people from Yue Zhong or people from Haidong Province still have a very strong concept of homogeneity and brotherhood.

Just like doing business, why can Zhejiang Merchants become the largest chamber of commerce in China?

　　People in other places like to make a fortune alone when doing business. As long as their own family has money, they are generally unwilling to help poor relatives, for fear that if there are more people doing business, the pressure of competition will be greater.

The characteristic of the thinking of people in Haidong Province when doing business is that if my business becomes popular, I will first lead my brothers and relatives to do it together.

 It became popular again, and people from the same village and town were encouraged to do it together, and then slowly it formed an industry.

 When this industry gathers together and reaches a certain scale, the most important "bargaining power" in the capital market will be obtained.

Hence the massive economy of Haidong Province is very developed, such as several counties under Yuezhong, socks from Datang, pearls from Shanxia Lake, small hardware from stores, ties from Shengxian County, fabrics from Keqiao, etc.

 The industry of a village, a town, or a county can reach an absolute monopoly position in the world. This is the best testimony that fellow villagers lead fellow townsmen and relatives lead relatives.

Today, the uncle of the Li family offered to help Li Dahai get a wife. This is not uncommon in rural areas. This is their obligation as elders.

Of course, after the large-scale urban demolition began, this so-called brotherhood was almost completely demolished.

Of course, the uncle of the Li family is also smart. Their uncles have already discussed it and married the sister of the president of the People's Hospital. Will Li Dahai be short of money in the future?

Who in Yuezhong doesn't know that Dean Chen Qi is rich and can easily get red envelopes from foreign countries. There are rumors that his net worth is in the tens of millions.

 So they know how to invest.

Now I am good at Li Dahai. I will support Dean Chen's sister. In the future, I will not say that I will bring them in business in the future.

The Li family was polite, and the Chen family was of course satisfied and agreed.

The marriage between the two parties has been finalized. Several uncles are extras, and they will not be involved in the subsequent negotiations on the details.

In the main room of Li Dahai's family, Chen Qi really started to talk about the conditions:

"Aunt Wu, I'm the younger brother, so I have no right to speak, but you should know the situation in my family. My parents are gone a long time ago. If my godfather and godmother hadn't come forward today, there wouldn't even be an elder in my family. .

 When I was a child, my family's conditions were very poor, even poorer than yours. At that time, the three of us, my younger brother and my younger sister, all had to go to school. Our family only had 70% of the farmland, and we had to pay public food for this farmland. The four of us simply couldn’t have enough to eat, let alone go to school.

That was my eldest sister, a girl in her teens, who went to the kiln to carry bricks to support us just like men. The bricks were so big, so thick, and so heavy that I couldn't even carry them when I tried. I know how my eldest sister managed to survive those years. "

Speaking of this, Chen Qi's tears fell. Lan Lijuan sat next to her and held her husband's hand tightly. She knew everything about the Chen family, but this was the first time she saw Chen Qi shed tears when he said this. tears. Chen Shu and Chen Hua leaned on Silly Sister, holding her in their arms and crying.

Wu Yueqin also wiped her tears with a handkerchief, while Li Dahai looked at the silly eldest sister, feeling distressed and uncomfortable.

 On the contrary, the silly elder sister doesn’t care:

“Second brother, what are you kiddos doing to bring this up? We are a family, and it’s the eldest sister’s duty to support you. Third and fourth children, why are you crying? You are so embarrassed in front of Aunt Wu and Uncle Guo.”

Chen Qi wiped his face and then said straight to the point:

"So Brother Dahai, Auntie Wu, as the younger brother of my mother's family, I have to say something ugly. It's not that my eldest sister can't get married. To be honest, with the current status and abilities of my wife and I, young men in Yuezhong who want to propose marriage to my family should not be too A lot.

We are not getting married because we, my wife and my two children, all hope that my eldest sister will find a family that treats her well, so that my eldest sister will not suffer so much in vain. If anyone treats my eldest sister badly, my brother-in-law will never agree! "

  Chen Qi thinks so and is prepared to do so.

With his connections, it would be easy to deal with anyone.

If you really can't deal with it, even if you bribe some scoundrels, your family will be destroyed. Family is Chen Qi's bottom line.

Li Dahai blushed when he heard Chen Qi's "threat" and stood up in a flash:

“Please rest assured, I will definitely treat your eldest sister well. I would rather have nothing to eat than let Ah Qin go hungry. Please believe me!”

Wu Yueying also quickly expressed her position:

"Dean Chen, don't worry. I'm not that kind of evil mother-in-law who doesn't understand things. I will definitely treat Aqin like my own daughter. And I have also thought about it. After Dahai and Aqin get married, they will live alone. , we will never drag down Dahai and Aqin."

The younger brothers and sisters of the Li family are quite different in age, but the second brother is also 23 years old, and the youngest sister is 10 years old this year.

These younger brothers and sisters originally sat in the back and said nothing, but at the critical moment they expressed their opinions one after another. The second brother of the Li family made a speech:

“Dean Chen, don’t worry. It was my brother who supported the family before. From now on, I will be the one to support the family. I am an adult and now work in a textile factory. I can support my mother and younger brothers and sisters!”

 Lao Guo was particularly pleased after hearing this. It seemed that the Li family had a good family tradition and the brothers and sisters were united.

Chen Qi was waiting for the Li family's statement. At the same time, he was also observing the expressions of Li Dahai's younger brothers and sisters to judge what kind of people they were.

 Li Dahai has the responsibility to support his mother and his younger brothers and sisters, but his younger brothers and sisters cannot regard Li Dahai's support as an obligation or take it for granted, and then lie on Li Dahai's body and keep sucking blood.

They sucking Li Dahai's blood is equivalent to sucking the blood of his eldest sister in the future. Chen Qi will not allow this kind of thing.

Now that the younger members of the Li family are performing very well and have their own backbone, Chen Qi breathes a sigh of relief. At the same time, he thinks that it doesn’t matter if the eldest sister helps them.

  In any case, for Chen Qi, as long as everyone in the Li family respects his eldest sister and treats her sincerely, money is no big deal.

 When it comes to money, Chen Qi is about to give him a surprise:

"Aunt Wu, the most important financial gift is the wedding gift. Several uncles from the Li family said before that they were prepared to give 1,000 yuan. I was very happy to hear it. To be honest, I don't care if there is a bride price, but my eldest sister must marry in a glamorous way, so this gift is Definitely the more the better.”

As soon as Chen Qi said this, the Li family broke out in a cold sweat. The 1,000 yuan was already collected by several relatives of the Li family, and they would definitely not be able to come up with more.

While they were thinking wildly, Chen Shu took a backpack he was carrying, unzipped it, took out the contents and put them on the table.

There were 10 bundles of RMB with a face value of 100 yuan on the table, and there were also some jewelry boxes, which blinded everyone's eyes as soon as they were opened:

 Wu Yueying, Li Dahai, and several younger brothers and sisters of the Li family were all dumbfounded.

In contrast, the Chen family didn't even have any unnecessary expressions. They didn't even raise their eyes when they saw the money and gold, and they made a judgment.

 Only Mrs. Guo whispered in Lao Guo's ear: "Chen Qi treats her sister so well!"

Lao Guo also chuckled: "This is just the beginning. Just listen, the main event is coming later."

Chen Qi pushed the things on the table to Wu Yueying's side and said seriously:

"Aunt Wu, this is 100,000 yuan. This is the hardware used for the wedding. There are 10 gold bars, each weighing 5 taels. You should keep these things first and use them as betrothal gifts before the wedding to help my eldest sister. Support the scene.”

 “This, this, so much, my God~~~”